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GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>周刊副主编吴琪对话精神科医生姜涛：为什么说精神疾病和儿童创伤紧密相关？</title><link>https://www.lingdianxinli.com/videos/reserve-video-bv1w8rhbbe17/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.lingdianxinli.com/videos/reserve-video-bv1w8rhbbe17/</guid><description>“我们总要等到孩子流血了，才会相信他们真的痛；等到他们想死了，才承认他们病了。” 

“这个社会能理解骨头断裂，却无法理解大脑神经递质紊乱；人们不会指责骨折患者‘不够坚强’，却习惯给精神疾病贴上‘意志薄弱’的标签，觉得这是一种‘性格缺陷’。”

 “走过30余年的行医之路，我发现：我以为自己在治病，其实我们只是彼此取暖。真正支撑我们活下去的，从来不是药物，而</description><category>心理科普</category><pubDate>Sun, 27 Sep 2026 02:46:31 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>聊聊心理学和心理医生</title><link>https://www.lingdianxinli.com/videos/reserve-video-bv1hdjb6let1/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.lingdianxinli.com/videos/reserve-video-bv1hdjb6let1/</guid><description>-</description><category>心理科普</category><pubDate>Sun, 04 Oct 2026 11:37:36 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>今晚咱们聊聊纯纯的心理学的最高逻辑，那个缺席的心理医生</title><link>https://www.lingdianxinli.com/videos/reserve-video-bv1ec5qzue4z/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.lingdianxinli.com/videos/reserve-video-bv1ec5qzue4z/</guid><description>-</description><category>心理科普</category><pubDate>Sun, 04 Oct 2026 11:37:36 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>TED演讲：如何解决焦虑</title><link>https://www.lingdianxinli.com/videos/reserve-video-bv1fn4y1w7ia/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.lingdianxinli.com/videos/reserve-video-bv1fn4y1w7ia/</guid><description>围绕“TED演讲：如何解决焦虑”展开的心理健康科普视频。</description><category>焦虑与压力</category><pubDate>Tue, 29 Sep 2026 08:14:12 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>心理科普：安全感｜引起问题的不是没有安全感；直面缺失而不是填补缺失；以回避型讨好型控制型人格为例</title><link>https://www.lingdianxinli.com/videos/reserve-video-bv1ru4y1r7a6/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.lingdianxinli.com/videos/reserve-video-bv1ru4y1r7a6/</guid><description>今天第一期，是关于发现正确的问题，建立合理的目标。

认为“没有安全感，就没法正常生活”是错误的；把提升安全感的第一道工序定在 填补安全感 也是不合理的。
 

我们要解一个局，得先发现结在哪里。

当大家在思考如何提升安全感这个事情的时候，多半是在现实生活中遇到了切实的问题和困扰，并且认为这个是缺少安全感导致的。 

我们今天就来说一说从缺乏安全感，到遇到</description><category>心理科普</category><pubDate>Sun, 04 Oct 2026 11:37:36 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>【心理自测】深度解读心理医生最爱用的抑郁测试-PHQ-9</title><link>https://www.lingdianxinli.com/videos/reserve-video-bv1wj4m1u7py/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.lingdianxinli.com/videos/reserve-video-bv1wj4m1u7py/</guid><description>希望这期PHQ-9的介绍，可以让你更了解自己，更好爱自己～
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参考资料：
首都医科大学附属北京安定医院2024年公开招聘：
深圳市康宁医院招聘公告（心理治疗师2名）：</description><category>心理科普</category><pubDate>Sun, 04 Oct 2026 11:37:36 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>这可能是对抗焦虑最有效的方法 | 彭凯平 对话 张朝阳</title><link>https://www.lingdianxinli.com/videos/reserve-video-bv183411u78u/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.lingdianxinli.com/videos/reserve-video-bv183411u78u/</guid><description>围绕“这可能是对抗焦虑最有效的方法 | 彭凯平 对话 张朝阳”展开的心理健康科普视频。</description><category>焦虑与压力</category><pubDate>Sun, 27 Sep 2026 02:53:21 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>【系统自学心理学11】深度科普：前额叶熬夜会受损？25岁才长好？</title><link>https://www.lingdianxinli.com/videos/reserve-video-bv1szdkbwe34/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.lingdianxinli.com/videos/reserve-video-bv1szdkbwe34/</guid><description>全网都在聊的前额叶，到底是个什么东西？这期10分钟的超长视频，来一口气聊清楚吧！准备了好久好久啊，剪辑也熬了几个大夜，记得点赞关注支持一下吧～
【主要参考文献】
Casey, B. J., Getz, S., &amp; Galvan, A. (2008). The adolescent brain. Developmental review, 28(1), 62-</description><category>心理科普</category><pubDate>Sun, 27 Sep 2026 02:53:24 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>心理科普｜开学焦虑，我该怎么办？</title><link>https://www.lingdianxinli.com/videos/reserve-video-bv1fy4y1u7un/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.lingdianxinli.com/videos/reserve-video-bv1fy4y1u7un/</guid><description>-</description><category>焦虑与压力</category><pubDate>Sun, 27 Sep 2026 02:53:27 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>TED演讲：如何缓解焦虑——来自神经科学家的建议！</title><link>https://www.lingdianxinli.com/videos/reserve-video-bv1y2421m7ez/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.lingdianxinli.com/videos/reserve-video-bv1y2421m7ez/</guid><description>TED演讲
What if you could transform your anxiety into something you can actually use during your work day? Neuroscientist Wendy Suzuki shares two evidence-based activities -- breathi</description><category>焦虑与压力</category><pubDate>Sun, 27 Sep 2026 02:53:30 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>【系统自学心理学14】深度心理科普：空心病的原因？如何自救？</title><link>https://www.lingdianxinli.com/videos/reserve-video-bv1tjj763eq2/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.lingdianxinli.com/videos/reserve-video-bv1tjj763eq2/</guid><description>为什么你完成了所有的目标，却还是不快乐？说不清楚哪里出了问题，但就是做什么都提不起劲。
心理学将这种状态称为“空心病”。为什么我们的环境盛产“空心病”？又该如何自救呢？
【主要参考文献】
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从小就被家里人说：“懒” 或者“不努力”
而且他们总觉得小孩子不会抑郁。

但心理学告诉我们，
表面上的“不行动”，背后可能有完全不同的原因。

在这一期视频里，我想和大家聊聊「习得性无助」，
以及为什么有时候，我们不是不想改变，而是不再相信改变有用。

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一个身体里住着两个人，时而是这个“我”，时而是另一个“我”？

但现实中的精神分裂症，和“人格分裂”完全不是一回事。
这一期，我会从这个最常见的误解出发，
聊聊精神分裂症到底“分裂”了什么，以及我们所谓的“自我”究竟是什么。</description><category>心理科普</category><pubDate>Sun, 27 Sep 2026 02:46:42 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>情感情绪封闭麻木，感受不到很多东西。记忆力反应力都下降了。我这是怎么了？|心理咨询师丁思远</title><link>https://www.lingdianxinli.com/videos/reserve-video-bv1a34y1p7lp/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.lingdianxinli.com/videos/reserve-video-bv1a34y1p7lp/</guid><description>-</description><category>心理科普</category><pubDate>Sun, 27 Sep 2026 02:55:09 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>缓解焦虑的正解是停止对抗❓试试正念减压❗练习正念前你需要知道的</title><link>https://www.lingdianxinli.com/videos/reserve-video-bv1yd4y1u7tk/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.lingdianxinli.com/videos/reserve-video-bv1yd4y1u7tk/</guid><description>其实正念真的很有挑战性，因为你需要不带评判性地去觉察你当下的状态。尝试头脑中什么念头都没有，可能坚持一秒钟都很难。

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